When theres no more tears, it means that you have totally given up.

Was chatting the other day about this topic.

Alot of people got into a relationship to forget the previous relationship. Perhaps another person love will allow you to forget the pain, to ease your loneliness. But on the other side, have you spare a thought for your new partner? I believe he/she will be very sad to know that your heart actually still has a big space for your previous partner. Some might argue that one wont be able to totally forget his or her previous partner. But what I mean is that you should at least have the mentality that if given a chance to patch back with your previous partner now, you will strongly say that you wont want it. I think only at that point of time, then you should welcome another person in your life. Otherwise, it would be unfair to the current partner, as your heart still strongly belongs to your previous one.

There was a similar discussion on some SCV show before. They were saying there are two types of people when it comes into a relationship. The first type is people who will go into a relationship as long as someone happens to stop by in your life. For example, whoever that has not bad characteristics and appearance who appears in your life and express slight interest in you, you will get together with him or her. Perhaps I can say it as people fishing for a bait. No matter what type of fishes, he will get it up. The second type is people who will only go into a relationship when he or she seriously thinks that the person is the right one, the one he or she wants to live the rest of the life with.

I realised if you have not get into a relationship before, you wont be so afraid of loneliness at our age. You will think that it will be a blessing if someone loves you come by in your life. Otherwise, you are contented with having just your friends and family members beside you. However, if you have once been into a relationship, you will feel the loneliness of not having someone by your side. The loneliness feeling is especially strong when you have just ended a relationship or at night or when you saw another couple living happily and start thinking why your own relationship didnt last..

Human.. I can only say we are greedy creatures.

posted by cutechicky @ 12/29/2008