When theres no more tears, it means that you have totally given up.

Close Relatioship

Took part in this survey regarding relationship. Heres my thoughts after the whole thing:

How do you define a close relationship?
A close relationship with someone means that you can actually tell him/her your secrets. You can chat with this person about everything under the sun even though you have seen each other everyday. Its about still having so much to talk to even though you haven seen each other much.

Whats the element present in a close relationship but not in a normal relationship?
Trust. Its mutual trust. Trust that he/she wants the best for you. Trust that he/she will not betray you. Trust that he/she will be there for you when you need someone badly to be by your side.

Have you been hurt by this special someone whom you have a close relationship to or sad about what he/she has done?
Yes. The most painful thing is when that special someone whom you trust betray you. They break their promises and crush that trust you have in them. It feels like someone stabbing your heart.

How did the incident happen above affect your life?
No longer have the naive belief that all people around me are nice and truthful to me. In another words, do not trust everyone.

Do you believe that this close relationship with that someone will last forever?
No. I wish that all relationships, even friendships, will last forever. But sad to say, life isnt meant to be in that way. Be it good or bad, all things come to an end. I guess its more important to have a happy time and treasure every single second with that person.
Memories are the only thing in earth that can stay happy. But sad to say, memories fade away and people tend to remember sad memories more than happy ones.

Life hasnt been good. Still, happiness is what I yearn for.

I want to be the happy little girl.

Life doesnt revolve only around relationship.

posted by cutechicky @ 3/21/2008